milk

回复 20# 灰心

your cousin made a bad choice dumping her first boyfriend.  You don't have to have children in any marriage...if you really want to have kid, there's in-vitro-fertilization with donor sperm, or adoption.

milk

回复 31# 碧萝梦


What is wrong with moving out??? if you don't get along with your parents, the sooner to move out the better.  It does not mean you are no longer a family, you just don't live together.  parents should not dictate a child's life forever. once the child turns 18, he/she becomes an adult and can make his/her own decisions (bad or good).  You can give advise as parents (or friends), but ultimately it's their life, and they get to make that choice.