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放养还是做推妈?

13已有 7225 次阅读  2010-01-19 21:40   标签放养还是做推吗? 
这几天看网上经常讨论对孩子是放养还是“推养”(就是推着孩子学习等等)。其实无论是放养还是推养好,关键是个“度”,过分的自由,完全的放养,担心孩子走错了路。反之,什么都替孩子决定,也会影响孩子的天性。
其实,管孩子和关劳工差不多。孩子和劳工就像手中握的沙,攥得太紧,沙子会从手中漏出。太松,也会从指缝中漏出。
所以,要放和推结合。

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  • Cecelia 2010-01-20 09:11
    当家长好辛苦!想想还是不要孩子算了!怕
  • 夜夜笙歌 2010-01-20 10:21
    现在国内“放养”很难做到吧。
  • lucy 2010-01-20 12:42
    yeyeshengge: 现在国内“放养”很难做到吧。
    I agree with you. however, the chinese people always like to push their kids wherever they are. I heard a mom, she has 8 years old daughter and do not want the second because she has to take her to attend 10 programs every week so she has no time  and energy to get the 2nd. :)
  • lucy 2010-01-20 12:43
    I forgot to tell this mom is in us
  • 夜夜笙歌 2010-01-20 13:54
    luludd: I agree with you. however, the chinese people always like to push their kids wherever they are. I heard a mom, she has 8 years old daughter and do no
    是啊,家长攀比,大人小孩都很辛苦。
  • 刘伦兴 2010-01-22 01:16
    好纠结啊~~~顺其自然喽``
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